Wednesday, August 12, 2015

2 Things Middle School students want you to know

Two Very important Things Middle School Students would tell you about themselves, if they knew themselves.

Over the years, when people ask me about my occupation the conversation has typically gone like this:  
Other Person: So, what do you do for a living?
Me: I’m a teacher.
Other Person: Wow, my hat goes off to you.  What grade do you teacher?
Me.  It varies between 7th and 8th grade. 
Other Person: I don’t know how you do it.  What subject do you teacher?
Me: Math
Other Person: Oh, I feel so sorry for you!

Most of the time, I find these responses funny, but when it’s a little sad when it comes from a former teacher. 

Middle School is difficult, because it’s a time of transition.  Students are going from the eager eyes of elementary school to the heavy headloads of high school.  At the same time they are changing classes their minds and bodies are changing as well.   There are hormonal changes in the brain that are signaling the body to all sorts of things from questioning authority to blooming body parts and it all happens relatively rapidly.  It’s a time when students are too big to be called little, but also to childish to be considered adults.  Balancing all the changes can be difficult for educators, parents, and students alike. 

The balancing act is particularly difficult in urban school settings where diversity of culture, poverty and lack of resources, social media, and other factors complicate that natural struggles.  In the face of so many daunting obstacles many educators are tempted

When asked, “Why did you do that?”  The typical Middle School Students responds, “I don’t know.”  It can be so frustrating to hear, but the truth is they don’t.   (Helpful tip: I have learned that that a better question to ask is “When you did that, what did you want to happen?)  After reading, “Welcome to Your Child’s brain?” and studying other texts, I have learned two key points to educating middle school students that they would tell you if they were aware and articulate enough themselves.

Understanding adolescence is critical.
Text Box: Three things amaze me,
    no, four things I’ll never understand—
how an eagle flies so high in the sky,
how a snake glides over a rock,
how a ship navigates the ocean,
why adolescents act the way they do
Proverbs 30:19, MSG
The key to going from surviving to thriving in Middle Schools is understanding adolescence.  Adolescence is a critical time in a child’s life where they are developing both mentally and physically. There is no better place to observe these changes than in Middle School.  I have always enjoyed teaching Middle School because it gives me the opportunity to see kids grow and mature significantly while under my influence.  My favorite part of eight grade promotion ceremonies are the flashback photos of students in 6th and 7th grade.  The transformation over the course of three years is phenomenal.  During this time there are some very natural changes that occur that educators need to be aware of in order to give effective instruction.
The period of adolescences contains a host of paradoxes in the brain which make natural behaviors seem completely irrational and bizarre.  At this time, the frontal cortex of the brain which is responsible for executive functions such as predicting outcomes and controlling impulses is not fully developed, but the subcortical areas responsible for emotions is more mature.  This explains why adolescents are more likely to be impulsive, they have all the brain power needed to understand the rewards, but not enough to completely examine the risks.  Even further their brain is busy releasing hormones, dopamine, and oxytocin which explains their moodiness and unpredictability.  
Gender matters. 
At the age of three, most all children reach important milestones in their gender identity.  By age three the vast majority of children are able to identify themselves as being either a boy or a girl.  They are also most likely to develop preferences based distinctively on gender.  Regardless of their environmental conditions boys tend to choose boy-typical toys to play with such as cars and guns, and girls tend to choose girl-typical toys to play with such as dolls and tea sets.  At this age children are also most likely to prefer playing with children of their own sex. 
These facts do not tell us that male and female are destined to a particular lifestyle based on gender, but rather clue us in on the fact that there are a few distinct differences between the minds of males and females.
In school, there are a few of these differences that are likely to present themselves and impact the kind of education a student should receive.   Girls on average are less active and physically aggressive than boys and studies have shown that these differences are more likely to be from differences in hormones than differences in culture.  Girls also have better verbal and written language skills than boys on average.  Boys, however, tend to have stronger mathematical skills, probably due to the fact that males are better at visualizing object rotation better than girls. 
The fact of the matter is that males and females have small, but significant differences in their brain structure.  Obviously this has some impact on the way that they learn.  Therefore, it also has impact on the best practices for how they should be taught.  This is not argument for same sex education, but rather a plea for consideration of gender during instruction, especially when problems arise. 
How to use what you know
How can we use this information so that it improves learning for our students?  The key to effective instruction at any grade level is planning. 
In terms of behavior management, expect the unexpected.  Know that unpredictable and seemingly irrational behavior is a natural part of the middle school students’ growth and development.  Have an effective system of positive and negative consequences that encourage students to predict the consequences of their behavior and understand the risks they are taking.  Expect that when given choices, they may not make the best ones and as previously stated they may not fully understand why.
In terms of instruction, be mindful.  Girls may need more help visualizing that geometry problem.  Boys may need more time with that hand written essay.  Both genders will benefit from lessons that engage them in the world around them and allow them to ask lots of questions about themselves and their environments. 
Above all, remember Middle School is not just a period of transition, it is a period of transformation. 

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